3 “Rules of Lending” – What Banks look at when you apply for a Mortgage

Separation and divorce are major life events that significantly impact finances—including homeownership. In Canada, approximately 40% of marriages end in divorce , making it a common challenge for homeowners. As a mortgage broker, I work with many clients who are navigating the challenges of keeping or selling their home, refinancing, or qualifying for a new mortgage post-separation. Lenders assess these applications differently than standard ones, particularly when it comes to income, debts, and liabilities . Whether you want to stay in your current home or move on to a new one, understanding your mortgage options is essential. How Separation & Divorce Impact Your Mortgage When separating from a spouse, one of the biggest financial decisions is what to do with the family home. Here are some common scenarios: 1. Keeping the Home If one spouse wants to stay in the home, they must refinance the mortgage to remove the other person’s name from title and buy out their ex’s share of the equity. 2. Selling the Home In some cases, selling the home and splitting the proceeds is the best financial option. This provides a clean break but requires both parties to qualify for new mortgages if they wish to buy separate homes. 3. Co-Owning After Separation Some ex-partners choose to co-own the home for a period, often for the sake of stability for children. While this may work temporarily, it will complicate future borrowing power . 4. Existing Mortgage Responsibilities Even if a separation agreement states that one party is responsible for the mortgage, lenders will still consider both parties liable unless the mortgage is refinanced and the ex’s name is removed from the title & the mortgage. Important : If both names remain on the mortgage and your ex stops making payments, your credit score and future borrowing ability will be affected .